Public Statement

The Acerbic Arushan(2) has given me an ultimatum.

Also known as The Acerbic Arushan – as closed down by Google: for hate speech, pornography, incitement to violence, libel, slander and defamation, this blogger then had the audacity to open The Acerbic Arushan2 – on which she has continued to spew filth and abuse and now she had taken it yet one step further. That she clearly has no intention of stopping of her own volition is demonstrated by the presence of The Acerbic Arushan3 – which is set up and waiting in the wings already in event of Google shutting AA2 down as they did with the initial blog.

She has presumed to give me an ultimatum in an "instruction". And her threat if I do not carry her instruction out is one step too far in her depravity.

I know what some people are saying about me as a parent. I understand what and why they are reacting to and about. However, and with the full support and endorsement of my family including and especially my daughters, I state that I will not be bullied by her.

I will not give out the statement on a  public forum and the names of those involved because some lunatic with a God-complex tells me to do so. It is yet another fascinating twist to her psyche revealed in thinking she can presume to make such a demand - and think to get away with it.

I will not be bullied and I will not give The Acerbic Arushan the satisfaction of thinking she is omnipotent.

Those who wish to see this as an indictment on the parent / mother I am may do so. I do not care to bother with "you" on your stance. Those who know me and know the mother I am and the relationship I have with my daughters, and especially is this referred to by my daughters themselves, will understand and support my stance.

This is wrong. The Acerbic Arushan is a very sick and twisted person and to give in to her is to fuel her depraved perceptions of herself.

Judge me as you will.

My initial involvement in that blog was prompted by an over-developed sense of fair play and fierce moral outrage at the damage and injury inflicted on innocent people by the slanderous, hateful spewings of AA. I sought to distract her. I went into that with my eyes open. However, although I acknowledged there would be attacks on me personally for my audacity in openly countering the vitriol she wrote – I was naïve in thinking she would stop with me.

I did not think, for a single minute, that this person would resort to attacking our daughters. I suffer, along with that over-developed sense of fair play, from an infinite belief in the fact that people are possessed of fragments, in not whole parts, of integrity and decency.

I was remiss. My actions in setting myself against The Acerbic Arushan have now resulted in a direct and blatant attack from her on our daughters. I am "guilty" of involving my daughters inadvertently- and have discussed the blog, its contents and current statements from that blogger with both my daughters.

The Acerbic Arushan challenges me thus:

A "clever" if tedious little play on the novel “Sophie’s Choice”. 

She asks me will I sacrifice my children and my family for what she calls my “ego”.

and

I have discussed this with my daughters – who know me for the person I am. Both endorse what I have already done and am about to do in defying The Acerbic Arushan. I admire their courage in this and their dedication to the fact that there must be fairness and goodness in this world and it must be fought for. The Acerbic Arushan could do with taking a goodly few leaves out of their books.

I have the full support of my husband in this as well.

That The Acerbic Arushan will throw a rage (of such proportion  which can only support the fact that she is mentally unstable) when she visits this page – as she has done on so many, many occasions, is beyond doubt.

That she will resort to carrying out her threats as seen below are also in no doubt:

She demands - demands, mind - from me a copy of my statement to the police, a list of names of all people involved in the situation – and then states she will know if I lie in my information.

Not only is she out of her mind with delusions of grandeur – a God-complex the likes of which I have yet to experience – in demanding that I post all above – she then states she will know if it is a lie.

HOW?

How would The Acerbic Arushan know if what I wrote was a lie or the truth – if she personally was not fully apprised of events / investigation / all associated information in some manner – which are privy only to those directly involved in thecriminal investigation into the blog and including the suspect herself?

This is a small conundrum.  I DO NOT state categorically that the person in question IS The Acerbic Arushan - and anyone who has been paying any attention at all will have got that already. I ask only that OTHER people also reserve their judgements until such time as this whole things has been cleared up, on way or another.

In true AA fashion, she has worked herself up into a frenzy – thwarted and angry she resorts to violently crude attacks on our children

The Acerbic Arushan knows I will not do as she tells me to for the simple reason that I will not be cowed by her attitudes and psychotic delusions and “do as I am told” by her.

The fact that she actually states she what she will be doing immediately makes a farce of anything she produces out of her sickness – threats and violence are her modus operandi. 

There is also a very real truth in the possibility that The Acerbic Arushan will go ahead and post what she wants to about our daughters - even if I give her what she wants. It would fit the persona and fuel her already dangerous delusions of self-importance.

That she will show the true nature of her illness in the style of retaliation she employs is self-evident. 

Those of you who wish to judge me for insisting I will not give in to her, may do so. With my blessing, if that's what it requires.

The fact is that none of you can possibly presume to know me, know my viewpoints and attitudes fully or to pretend that you know how you would react in a similar situation. Until you are where I am, and can examine your own considerations and conscience about justice and fairness and doing what you feel to be right in the circumstances, I would ask you to hold your reservations, thoughts and words to yourself.

Those of you who cannot and would sit around throwing stones? So be it.

My continued stand against her is supported by my children, my husband, my family and those people in this community who are our friends. 

I cannot speak for the rest of the community nor do I expect their support.

As for The Acerbic Arushan?

I did pity her. I no longer do.

Acerbic Arusha – to hell with you. I will not do as I am told by one such as you. .